what hurts?
What hurts…???
:: letting go of a person u’ve just learned to love
:: reminiscing the good times u shared together
:: shielding ur heart to love somebody
:: trying to hide what u really feel
:: trying to hide the tears that involuntarily fall from ur eyes
:: loving a person too much
:: giving up someone u never thought of giving up
:: having the right love at the wrong time
:: taking the risk to fall in love again
:: hiding ur relationship from someone else
:: controlling ur feelings to avoid hurting a friend
:: thinking of him every waking and sleeping moment knowing all the while that he never even thinks
single thought of you…
:: letting go, because everytime you see the person, you only fall deeper
:: holding back only to find out when it’s too late, you both felt the same way, but were only scared to lose each other so much that you didn’t let the feelings out
:: falling inlove with someone you didnt mean to fall inlove with
:: finding the perfect man…with only one prob….he doesnt love you…
:: helping the one you love court your friend
:: seeing the one you love crying for someone else
:: the waiting also hurts like hell
:: having to hear “… I’ve met someone”
:: agreeing to his wish to ‘just be friends’.
:: asking his freedom back bcoz ‘he’d be happier with her’
:: asking u to ‘forget that everything happened’and be ‘normal’ friends again.
:: hearing that u’re treated as a little sister.
:: sharing his future plans for the girl with you.
:: u stopped being friends bcoz her bf/gf asked her/him to.
:: being denied in front of people.
:: telling u lies where he’d been when actually, he was with a ‘new friend’ or an ‘old flame’!
:: she told u she’d be leaving u to return to her ex (d one she left 4 u!)
:: breaking someone’s heart
:: fighting for that one thing that would make you happy
:: that is, holding on to a person who can not guarantee you his/her commitment unless he/she fixed
himself/herself…then, you are left hanging for the moment…then he/she says, time will tell…but you still decided to hope in him/her and trust him/her
:: PRETENDING you’re OK when inside you’re dying…
:: PRETENDING to be strong…. and RECOGNIZING your weakness
:: lying in bed each night, thinking of that special person you can never have…
:: being with someone you can’t actually love…
:: pretending you don’t love a person whom you actually love…
:: being in love…
:: letting go even if you really don’t want to… having no right to say you are hurting, because it was your decision
:: seeing the person you love hurt because of you… and not being able to help that person…
:: having the courage to say I LOVE YOU to the person you love and finding out afterwards that things will
never be the same again when he/she doesnt treat you with the same closeness as before
:: having to face the fact that someone is capable of completely destroying the wall that you have set for
yourself, leaving you weak and vulnerable
:: admitting that you love someone despite her/his imperfections
:: finding out that the more you try to hate her/him, the more you end up loving her/him,
perhaps even more than before…
:: realizing how stupid your mistakes were that led to your break-up.
:: the thought that this girl/guy, used to really love you and you loved her/him as well but you didn’t
give enough and she/he gave up on you
:: Sharing the one you love with SOMEBODY else…..”
:: making a promise….and realizing that when the time has come for that promise to be
delivered….the commitment is no longer there…
:: the hardest thing about love - believing it exists.
After you’ve been hurt…
…learn to forgive
…learn to trust and love again
June 22nd, 2005 at 12:46 am
i am really touch with this….i truly understand what u wanted to say!…i even cry…and have nothing to do but pray that u may find ur one great love….soon…take care toni!…i love u!!!!
June 22nd, 2005 at 1:16 am
hi tama ka ate toni
June 22nd, 2005 at 4:25 pm
im a really touch with this..you’re absolutely right..i will always pray that you’ll find the right guy who will truly deserves someone like you.. take care
June 22nd, 2005 at 6:38 pm
im really sad bout u and dingdong braeking up.. i thought u were the right couple.. u look soooo gud together.. wat happened . . .
June 24th, 2005 at 11:43 am
i can totally relate with this.
oh well, maybe love just works this way.
can i add a couple more stuffs to “what hurts?”
- blaming yourself, regretting you lose him when in fact, you never really had him at all. -
- letting him go because of love. and him, wanting to stay because of friendship.
that hurts.. big time. :’(
June 29th, 2005 at 2:52 am
ayy kaka touch…. you make me quite for a minute….. whew….
July 5th, 2005 at 2:27 am
nakakatouch nman toni…naalala q 2loi kaung dalawa ni dingdong..hope mahanap mo na ang tunay na lalaki at ang magmamahal sau ng totoo..gudluck in your career…& we miss you & love you here in the philippines…mwahhhh….
July 22nd, 2005 at 7:04 pm
totoo lht ng cnbi mo toni…i know how difficult it is 4u… but u know, the world does not end hir…u can find some1 more dserving than dingdong… i hope ul be back in the philippines soon..we miss u na kc eh…niwiez, gud luck to ur career..God will give u the best man u deserve…
August 1st, 2005 at 7:51 am
yup! this is true, i do symphatize what happened to you. but u know wat? when God closes a door, he opens a great window… u know…there is someone out there that would be the best for you.. REgards
August 5th, 2005 at 2:26 am
i agree with you. and i can totally relate with this.. But that how Love works.. God is there, HE knows what we really need and what’s the best for us. Regards! God Bless..
July 18th, 2006 at 11:31 am
toni ur such a wounderfull person inside and out… lalo akng humahanga sau sa ktatagan mo at sa pagharap mo sa buhay…GOD BLESS you and ur family mwuah
July 8th, 2008 at 8:05 am
huhu kakarelate po ako jan,,it really hurts,,,sana ma get over ko na cia ang sakit tlaga magmahal ng too…
May 20th, 2009 at 8:49 am
its a sad story bout love…but that’s the real thing!it happens.. i was touched!i can relate to some situation!but everything that exist has a reason..god wants us to be strong,,giving us this kind of trials means he trusted us so much!god bless to u & ur family!keep it up! stay strong gurl!